The Utopia of a control freak

The idea is to give them a sense of control over you. 

A false sense of control...a pseudo control of sorts.

You let them believe that they have control.  

Every decision they make must be followed, 

but the decision in itself should be yours, 

just coming from them.

You will soon realize that Utopia is inevitable then.
The puppeteer yields control to the puppet to become
the ultimate master of the puppet.
(Master!, Master! *Hetfield voice*)